How to become a good and thoughtful gift-giver

Choosing the right gift can feel difficult, but it is possible to buy something meaningful that will please your loved ones – and stay out of the trash My family members are incredible gift-givers. Every birthday and holiday, they manage to select exactly what the recipient wanted – or didn’t know they wanted. I didn’t inherit this gene. What do people talk about when they’re not trying to impress you? What are their genuine interests, passions and concerns? Notice their lifestyle, Maso says: “How they live, what they value, where they unwind.” Choose something that “reflects their world, not yours”. Did I want a Lego orchid? Yes. Did my father? No. Add a touch of the unexpected. “The best gifts always have a little, ‘I didn’t know I needed this, but it’s so me!’ moment,” Maso says. Continue reading...